If you could say anything you want to the person who has hurt you most in life, what would it be? Did you ever confront them? Why or why not?
Well, a lot of people have hurt me in my life. I was originally going to write about one of my ex boyfriends, but, then I realized something. There was someone else who has hurt me even worse. That person is my Aunt Mary. She was someone I used to look up to. She is my aunt and my godmother. However, she drinks constantly. Yes, she is an alocholic, and I was too stupid when I was little to realize that.
She's lied to everyone, made up stories, and has left horrible messages on our answering machine a few years ago. One of them was directed towards me about my mother before I was born. She made up crap about a baby that had died in utero. I don't remember the message, but I remember being really angry with her for this. My best friend would probably remember this story as I have told it so many times.
I don't hate my aunt, as I am more disappointed in her. She needs help and refuses to get it. It's sick and disappointing and sad.
What would I like to say to her? Well, several things come to mind. Let me sum it up in a letter so to speak.
Dear Aunt Mary,
Why have you hurt us, your family? Why have you hurt the one person who has looked up to you since the day they were born? Why have you hurt your children and your husband?
You are sick, and you need help. I love you Aunt Mary and it pains me to see you like this.
your only neice.
There. That's my answer for your question. :)